Summer is flying by - again. The days don't particularly seem to speed past, but I turn around and a month has gone by. How does this happen? Is it inversely tied to age? Weird and a little scary.
My niece has been here with me for just over a week now. We've been having fun and getting to know one another. I suspect she thinks my life is just a little too quiet for words - no parties, no clubs, no Forever 21. But at the same time she is enjoying the horses and the riding and the visiting of a friend's new puppy. It is hard to be 15 years old - on the cusp of adulthood but not yet ready to let go of being the adored little girl.
She's a beautiful girl with porcelain skin, hazel eyes and a killer sense of humor. And a natural-born rider. She sits a horse with confidence, strength and balance. Yesterday I watched my mustang, notorious for walking away, stand still as a stone while she figured out first the fly mask and then the halter. He wanted her to catch him.
I imagine my life must seem kind of quiet and dull to a teenager, but for me it is all I want. I think of the title of a book of comics JC has - the Far Side or something - and I've been using it on my niece. "The days are just packed!" Inwardly she's rolling her eyes.
I could be a hermit and perhaps it is a good thing JC is not actively exploring that 20 acres I went to look at a few weeks ago. Give me a long dirt road and a comfortable home with a studio and I may never leave. Especially if my horses and dogs are there too. I have a hankering for a puppy - we went to visit a friend who has a 4-month old Queensland Heeler and my heart melted. Right now the house seems empty and quiet but that is only because the dogs are over at the resort - when they are home it is evident that two dogs are plenty! But a QH - saavy around horses, smart and fast.... could be a good trail companion. If I were to ever get back out on a trail.
I remember a time when I used to just hang out - at the beach, in my back yard, beside a pool. Now I have a hammock that hangs in the back yard empty, it takes months to read one book, and my time is filled to the brim with stuff. Anyone else experience this? How does trivia come to take over one's life? The days are just packed.
I think this is part of the reason I have horses. Unless there is a compelling reason to move quickly they spend a lot of time relaxing. And being relaxed. And still. With those amazing eyes that seem to know everything.
It brings me back to ground.
And reminds me that in the end the only things that matter are the relationships you have. With people, with animals, with life.
Slow down, take the time, and enjoy the ride.
